#Control Overthinking

[optimalmindsetllc]

The Hidden Costs of Overthinking in Business

Executive coach for overthinking entrepreneurs

Your mind is your greatest asset. It’s the engine of innovation, the architect of your vision, and the driver of your success. But what happens when that powerful engine gets stuck in overdrive, churning out endless thoughts, worries, and “what ifs”? The answer, unfortunately, is that overthinking can become your biggest liability, silently sabotaging your well-being and hindering your…

[just-null]

Thinking….. thinking of yandere noritoshi

me too....

Noritoshi is suspicious of you at the worst of times. The same faint crease on his brow always appears when he's trying to hide being bothered by something.

This time? Because you've been focusing on your phone rather than him for a little bit too long...... He trusts you, of course he does! its just, he doesn't trust others. What if you end up talking with somebody for too long and they try whisking you away?

Obviously it's most likely nothing and you're enjoying your time doing who knows what on the phone that he's not allowed to check because you told him he couldn't no matter how many times he asked. Noritoshi still stares at your phone intensely when its sitting somewhere, itching to take a quick peek.. it'll be harmless, you don't even have to know!

Yet, his mind wanders to the possibility of getting caught. He'd rather spear arrows through his palm than be gazed at with disapproval by you. Its only natural to have privacy, he tells himself. So, begrudgingly, Noritoshi obeys and watches you on the stupid little phone.

The phone that contains a lot of mindless entertainment and important files. The same phone that holds a lot of personal information you keep to yourself. The same damn phone he's been itching to get his hands on ever since you began smiling at the device.

Why aren't you showing him what's so funny? Oh, right, because he could care less. All he cares about is that your attention is off of him and onto something else that could easily lead you to interact with someone else. It becomes too much and he acts emotionally, tilting the phone down and confronting you. It's not an accusation, just a question. Tell him he's wrong, he's almost begging you to tell him he's wrong. He just wants your attention again, so forgive him if he acts irrational. He'll make up for it, he promises.

Though, if you're alright with Noritoshi looking through your phone, his looming shadow over your shoulder will be a common occurrence every time you turn on your device. He might as well stop using his own with how much he likes holding onto yours. It's just to help you carry your things, of course. He's so gentlemanly isn't he? Go on, praise him!

[vanyafresita]

what an interesting reading...

[darlenicy]

Wtf did I just read?? Is Darcy a bloody virgin in this angst prompt? This makes no sense for her

..... everyone starts small..?

so this refers to this post of mine

This is exactly why I was insecure posting it. I already wanted to take it down because I expected backflash. Listen, to me Darcy is more than the badass bitch of CT. She's a girl after all, a girl with a heart and soul and yes with fucking anxiety. This witch is a mind witch, an overthinker. I find this beginning of her just...logical? She's not the one who loses control in front of others so how should she gain experience when she's afraid of doing so?

Maybe I'm gonna rewrite it tho

[gifti3]

the goverment is definitely figuring out this alien situation asap right?? cause whats happening currently is not feasible in the long run is it not??

im sure they are trying to maybe figure it out...probably, but part of me feels like it is not being treated with the seriousness it should be by them, which ig is in character LOL

pretty much relying on one guy (who doesnt even wanna be doing this) is actually scary

and the mc still has to like 'encourage' him to do it, tho its much easier in the 'ray ending' for sure. that man just wants to live a regular life with mc (unfortunately for him that means continuing to be binary star and dealing with aliens)

and if i was a citizen and knew this id be panicking

like yea u have these other heroes helping and stuff which im sure looks comforting from an outside point of view! but like the actuality is that its ray keeping things afloat

AND ON THE TOPIC OF THE MC, i was definitely in my head like....wouldnt rays superiors (managers??) get like curious about them? like no way theyre not being nosy about it after a certain amount of time passes. it really feels like something that could be leveraged against him,,, (if there is fic about this pls send it to me lol)

honestly i feel like mc and rays relationship would have moments of high stress. like there will be good times but also the bad times will also be there and its sometimes gonna be because of outside factors they cant control

[pourable-cat]

So back in the day on my old blog I made this sci-fi Discworld witches AU, here's Witches Abroad in the same setting

[yuu-twisted]

we really dont talk about the fact of the fucked situation with Grim and how hes discriminated against as a monster in the narrative and how often in the fandom he gets treated like a pet and how that kind of messes with the in universe issue of Grim wanting to be treated like a person but often getting treated like an animal and how fuzzy that line is with him tonally and that its kinda weird when people boil him down to just a cat when hes very clearly a conscious feeling being with dreams and complex thought the ability to use tools and magical skill and able to learn and internalize concequence.

Man I gotta write a full post breaking this down brb time to do research on all of grims dialogue trees and appearances.

[frameconfessions]

I want to play games with Amir but he takes it easy on me since I can't read the games as fast as him.

[arson-duck]

The Harm in Asking

Sick mind, spiral like fire

Burning, blazing, break umpire

Caged away, trapped entire

Pushing back, light the pyre

Loosened tongue, lashes free

Break my teeth, lips too weak

Rash desire, lustrous pink

Blood bright greed, stain my speech

Cystic strain, give the way

Burst, unfold, baltic spray

Bite to blood, still too late

Icy gaze, raw, I pray

– and I regret asking for rapture

[hardwiredd]

hello chat i um have a sort of questionn

i made these two banners; one to go under sfw posts, the other to go on under-the-cut nsfw. they're lighthearted but to the point. i generally have just fully planned to use these, but i realized i follow plenty of nsfw artists who post sfw art without anything like these. they ofc have the mdni in their bios, but nothing on specific posts. i know i'm definitely overthinking this, but i just wanted to get any sorta second opinion to see if it was a good idea to use these or not. any insight is heavily appreciated!!

[a-flappy-bat]

Messy Jesse and Darling sketch studies :3

[elusive-grace]

It feels so vulnerable when you spread my legs and lick my pvssy and a$$. I'm spread open, helpless, exposed, and all I can do is gasp and tremble while you take what you want.

[qoldenskies]

What did you put in cc!don to make everyone (me included) so obsessed with him? crack cocaine? Can i have some

i assume you're being comedic and not critical but i actually think the crack cocaine in question is projection /pos. he's definitely not a character i would write if this weren't an inherently derivative story (i do have an original character with a lot of similar issues, but she's brimming with neuroticism and i go out of my way to make her comedic lmao... cc is not a story in general that i could tell if it weren't a fanfic, because structuring stories with original characters is much different) but i do think he's carried along by that. people already know donnie intimately, and a lot of people relate to him, and then here's a version of him that's been broken down so thoroughly and lost all of his "usefulness", still loved with no caveats.

i think it's the appeal of hurt/comfort, and it's something i played into heavily-- in a way it's an experience where you can just pour love into yourself without having to feel guilty about it. here's a little guy with all your issues and more, and here's him receiving the love you desperately want and deserve (because you do. yes you). some parts in cw are deliberately unrealistic for the sake of providing catharsis, and it's because i understand this intimately. they make them better to write and to read tbh. people will play around with the logic of all types of things to make them more compelling in stories (pretty much everything related to action and injuries, for example) so why cant i go as hard as possible on the comfort scenes too? and if it is, why is that kind of thing only reserved to the romance genre, anyway? kill amatonormativity now

anyways i think he's comforting because his issues are mostly self-destructive, and he does hurt people but it's not really his fault, and despite everything, no matter how much he begs and pleads not to be, he is loved. i think pushing people away and being thought about and loved anyway is what a lot of people desire more than anything-- to not have to beg for it, because then it feels selfish. he's a very easy character to pour all my pain into when im having a bad day, and im sure i'm not the only one who feels like that with the way other people talk about him. i think

[velvetjune]

I don’t care if it’s actually because of supernatural reasons, I’m choosing to believe Emily and Jesse are so in sync throughout the game and foundation dlc because they’re just that compatible and perfect for each other. soulmates. paranatural power of love or something.

[cerbreus]

surgery leave finally okayed!!!!

[wanderingmind867]

Have you ever felt like you never make enough posts, no matter what you do? I feel like that right now. I feel like my brain has 3000 ideas for posts, and I'll never be able to post them all. Because by the time I even manage to post 5 of the ideas, all of the others will have vanished from my head. So i feel like i really can't win here, and that sucks. But i'm going to try to post as many of my ideas as I can. And i'll probably end up posting something insecure when i'm halfway through with all my posts. Because as per usual, I get nervous that nobody can actually see my posts. If a post i liked gets 0 notes for long enough, I get kind of pushy as I beg for it to get attention. It's sad but true. all too true...